SELF IMPROVEMENT
How Dedicating Time to Self-Improvement Can Help Your Relationships
Everybody is familiar with the phrase ‘nobody’s perfect’ or ‘we’re only human.’ Both are true, but many tend to lean on those as crutches to avoid making tough choices. It’s easy to get by on what we already have or who we already are by pointing out our innate imperfections.
Yet, what happens when being imperfectly human is no longer enough? What if our traits and habits now actively lead to the deterioration of our relationships? The sad fact is that most only bother to change once the bad consequences happen. By leaning on self-improvement, you can better yourself and improve your relationships, with the following reasons why that’s so:
It Leads to Self-Awareness
The better we know ourselves, the less we get in our own way. Self-awareness can help us learn about where we’re at when it comes to the different areas of our lives. We’ll be better at working on our weaknesses and we’d be more adept at utilizing our strengths to our advantage.
It Leads to Smarter and Wiser Decision-Making
The more we improve, the more likely we’ll learn about how and why we made our past mistakes. In knowing that, we can reduce or eliminate repeats of those mistakes entirely. From there, our potential for improved decision making increases, which is always going to be a win-win scenario for anyone.
It Leads to Improved Skills and Performances
There is often greater clarity and focus when we start working on ourselves. Since self-improvement is fairly broad, then it can start with small things like getting in some exercise everyday, learning a new craft, or giving therapy a chance. The more we do, the better our skills and performances in certain areas become.
It Can Make Us More Confident
A confident person stands out among a crowd that’s mired in their own negative self-perceptions. The fact that confidence is often ranked as one of the more attractive traits by men and women alike. With confidence, you also gain the courage to do things you normally wouldn’t, like taking solo trips or engaging in new hobbies.
It Can Make Us More Likable
Making mistakes can make people seem relatable, but going overboard with our flaws can lead to the opposite. In making a continuous effort to improve, we also continuously expose the best sides of ourselves to others. That is the side that enables people to enjoy our presence more.
It Can Cultivate a Desire for More Learning in Us
The more we succeed in our self-improvement efforts, the easier it becomes to fall in love with learning. We yearn for more ways to better ourselves, and as such, we become open to far more possibilities than ever before. This will not only help improve our relationships, but it can also lead to greater success in other areas of our lives.
The road to self-actualization begins with self-improvement. As time-consuming as it can be, and as seemingly endless that road looks, undertaking this process is worthwhile for anyone, given the benefits one can reap. Before long, it won’t just be your relationships that will see positive results, that much is guaranteed.
